How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Jessica and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I’m a straight woman in a long-term relationship with a bisexual man, ...

I’m a 30-year-old woman, and I was taught from a very young age that it was my job to keep myself looking attractive and pristine “for the man in your life.” I went to college, and a lot of that ...

Q: How little sex is too little? My boyfriend and I have been together for a little more than four years (we're both in our early 30s and just moved in together) and we just... don't really have sex ...

As I was wrapped in the comfort of my boyfriend, on a cosy winter weekend, a question surfaced. We had spoken before about meeting his mother many times. And yet, it still had not happened. The ...

I was taught to seize the workday. He prefers a nap. By Lori Gottlieb Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and best-selling author of a memoir about her work as a therapist, offers readers advice on ...

A woman has asked for advice after her boyfriend asked her to do something on a family holiday that makes her feel uncomfortable. Disagreements in relationships are normal and, in healthy ...

I met my boyfriend at a popular market in Enugu when I was 18. He was 25 at the time, selling spare parts, while I was learning tailoring because my family couldn’t afford to send me to university. We ...

Q: I've been with my boyfriend for over six years now. Things are wonderful: We live together (with our cat), we spend time with each other's families, we just moved to a new city together. But people ...

This holiday season, I’ve been navigating some major challenges with my older sister and my boyfriend. The difficulty started last winter, when my boyfriend wanted to buy an investment property in the ...