In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to someone who is afraid their wedding invitations ...

GENTLE READER: It is not actually a gift-grab, because giving presents is always voluntary -- especially when one is not ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I keep seeing letters to you, and to other advice columnists, talking about wedding invitations being gift ...

Or, why not skip the paper invites altogether? Going digital is one of the simplest ways to save money on wedding invitations ...